Man has constantly struggled with what makes a woman happy- this is a question that has kept him wondering and puzzled and confused-
What he thinks is THIS:
a) Is it money?
b) Is it food?
c) is it wine and dine ?
d) is it romantic talks, walks, shows?
e) Is it clothes, jewellery? a big house? a big garden? bags? shoes? cosmetics? perfumes?
f) Is it pets?
Is it flowers? travel? breakfast in bed?
No wonder when he thinks of so much he is confused, he is helpless and a wreck and turns to blame her for wanting so much!!!!!
Is it not possible it is what he thinks she wants!!!
Ask her may not even occur to him at times!!
Many a time the truth is that she can do without a lot of these above frills and fancies, as many would tell you if asked!!
She needs Attention, affection and appreciation– these maybe in forms differing for different women, but above all actions carried out with love and thoughtfulness.
These are the base of her needs – for her very survival!!
She needs a commitment, a sense of belonging, respect, responsibility and good behavior.
She needs to feel safe, loved, cared for and rest if it comes—-Bonus!
She needs to know that her offspring will be loved and cared for if she so decides to have them.
Yes!!! She needs stuff that few can offer generously which does not cost in money but in time, ——-
There is not more to complicate —
It is truly said that when a woman cries- tears of true sorrow- the Gods and his angels come down to help her out and up!!!
Sharing and togetherness with love and care.